Today I learned: “Smiles are contagious, and are meant to be spread”
A man that hardly needs an introduction, he has been a key person in my learning development over the last 5 years: Simon.
- Alter Ego: Jack (from Mexico, but who often visits our home… and India. He is sometimes good, and sometimes naughty, but never boring.)
- Best Friend: Anthony, Allie, Pablo, Jeremy, Ethan…and every other person he meets…but mostly the SPOTLIGHT is his best friend – he is always under it!
- Future Career: Cowboy
Simon commanded attention from the moment I found out I was pregnant. Nothing would ever be “ordinary” with him. He was my first home-birth, and my only water birth. Everything about his coming into the world was remarkable and beautiful. He instantly put a smile on my face and has not stopped teaching me how to smile since.
In fact, his smile is radiant. Simon has the biggest cheek-to-cheek grin I have ever seen in my life, and it is almost permanently on his face; its not too surprising given his natural talent for humor. I knew he had a lot to teach me about humor when he was around 6 months old and he turned to his big sister on the couch and gave her a grin and made a funny sound to make her laugh.
His laughter is what makes him so great at getting in touch with that “inner child.” He always has time to play, be silly, and brighten a room. His comedic talent ranges from fart and poop jokes to a plethora of funny faces. There is just no telling what he will pull out of his bag of tricks. He certainly has shown me the importance of carrying that bag and making sure it is always full.
He also has an incredible sense of wonder, making him a CEO (Chief Exploring Officer). He is enamored with nature; any living thing he finds is a part of his heart. He is also curious and never without a question, so his mind is continually working (and so is his mouth). A great reminder that if you don’t know the answer, its ok to go find it.
And he never gives up on finding the answers either. His determination is remarkable. He has taught me many times over that pushing myself and picking myself up when I stumble are the only ways to succeed. He never fails, and he never gives up. He changes his approach until he “gets it”. This determination makes him very smart and open to learning new things.
While he is determined beyond belief, he is also not afraid of letting go. He never holds on to the things he does not need. He lets go of emotional garbage and grudges. He is quick to forgive, and fast to share. He loves whole-heartedly and never allows sadness or stress to consume him. His spirit is strong and yet innocent. I take full advantage of these strengths he possesses, because I have much to learn, especially in these areas
Simon is like a ray of sunshine on a cloudy day. It’s impossible to meet him and not fall instantly in love and have this overwhelming sense of… goodness. I am forever grateful for his presence in my life.
Thank you, Simon – You are so smart.
-Stupid Mom